I believe the greatest sign of human weakness is when people shout. In fact, I think people who shout are stupid and are the lowest types of untalented characters. These people think that shouting will make others listen to them and do whatever they ask of them, but this is mostly false. The only time shouting will work is when the person being shouted at has low self-esteem, but people who respect themselves and know they deserve better will never succumb to the demands of a shouting individual.
People who think yelling will make others fear and obey them are simply jerks that will never get any respect. Some people may seem two-faced and only scream at others in certain situations and in certain places. People from different backgrounds and upbringings are different. Not everyone is the same.
I'm the master and I can shout whenever I want to!" This sentiment is not true at all. Being the boss or head of the family does not entitle you to the right to shout at others and put people down. People who do this are abusers, and it is no wonder that employees tend to hate their screaming bosses and hope for them to disappear! Some sponsors treat their maids and drivers badly, and shouting at them becomes a habit. This verbal abuse can push anyone to despair and can even lead some people into a life of crime.
Why do people shout at others? I think those who scream at other people are arrogant and have sick personalities. They lack trust in themselves and hate who they are. They want to release their pressures and frustration at others and direct their rage at the weakest people around them who are helpless to their verbal attacks. Doing so reaffirms their skewed ideas of superiority over others.
What should you do if someone shouts at you? Don't take it. You can sometimes use fire with fire, but this method can sometimes lead to worse outcomes. You can ignore the person and never deal with them again. If the boss is the culprit, you can tell him to his face that you do not approve of such treatment. If you work for someone who does not respect you, they are really not worth your time.
Is it embarrassing and degrading to be yelled at? Yes, but you can let it go, and you can learn how to handle such abuse. You can tell the person to release his frustration somewhere else. Keep your distance afterwards and don't think he will not shout again. Learn to deal with the shouting wisely and firmly.
muna@kuwaittimes.net
Scientifically, individual who fancy shouting at others is actually suffering a bad case of rectum hemorrhage.
ReplyDeleteFrom a medical point of view, the presence of certain pressure along the rectum causes an upward strain to the brain cell, resulting in a certain distortion to the brain cells. The condition of brain cell distortion may affect human good judgment.
From years of medical researches, findings show that the only resuscitation to this condition to avoid accidental bleeding out of ones ass is to balance the pressure along the rectum by releasing gas through body pores.
And the biggest pore in human anatomy apart from the ass is the mouth. A person suffering from this will have to shout instead of talking like a civilized human being in order to exert a gush of air to reach a state of equilibrium down his rectum.
Alternatively, scientist has also found an alternative procedure to address this condition which involves a second party. It is call pressure repression technique where the second party needs to shove something up to the sufferer ass before he or she start to open his/her mouth.
U are damn right pro....its in the system error...hahaha
ReplyDeleteit has been years people do this, shouting.. sometimes with no reason..but i tell you what.. women love to shout.. a good shout in the middle of the night!!! hehehehe
ReplyDeletekena shout sebab pekak badak kot....
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